I Love Female Orgasm [Track 21] | Conscious Intimacy Techniques: Evolving Beyond Casual Connection

Reclaiming the Sacred in Intimacy

Looking back at my writing from 2011 is a powerful reminder of how long I have been exploring the intersections of human connection, poetry, and social psychology. Back then, I was breaking down a spoken-word piece that pulled no punches when discussing physical intimacy, mutual pleasure, and the mechanics of desire. While the language I used fifteen years ago was raw and incredibly unfiltered, the core message was already pointing toward something much deeper than a casual encounter. Even then, I was trying to bridge the gap between physical ecstasy and emotional safety.

The Sociology of True Alignment

Over the years, my perspective on these dynamics has matured significantly through my continuous research into human behavior and societal structures. Today, I look at physical intimacy not just as a thrilling biological release, but as a profound space for conscious alignment and psychological trust. The hyper-sexualized, fast-paced modern culture often detaches the physical act from the emotional bond, leaving people feeling empty and disconnected. I break down these cultural shifts and explore how we can build genuinely fulfilling relationships regularly over at SociologyOfLove.com. True compatibility requires open communication, breaking down your inhibitions, and understanding your partner's emotional landscape completely.

Art and philosophy are always interconnected, and this mindset deeply influences how I approach both my music catalog and my creative independence. If you want to see how these philosophies impact my creative journey, check out the LyceumRecordz.com blog to see posts about Eric’s albums and Eric’s business perspective. To support this independent art and join a community dedicated to higher awareness, make sure to get a membership at fiense.com/memberships. Let's take a look at the original 2011 breakdown below to see where these ideas on intimacy and connection first began to take root.

Original 2011 Post: The Anatomy of a Passionate Habit

"We passionate rabbits that ration a habit!" Real lovers are like "passionate rabbits." They love each other so much that all they really feel they ever do is ration the time that they get together (to have sex), because otherwise, they would 'do it' constantly. So, in order for it to be easier and acceptable to fornicate as they wish (i.e., constantly), they refashion their lives "to have it" so that every day feels like the Sabbath. I used the Sabbath here because I'm basically talking about marriage, and the Sabbath is a religious holiday that demands believers to rest and copulate.

The poem was designed in two parts: Foreplay and Intercourse. Foreplay is the first 4 verses, and Intercourse is the last. Like foreplay, the first four verses are fun and playful and gradually get more intense until Intercourse. The first verse is about realizing that you and your partner are lovers because you both want to have sex with each other all the time.

The second is about lowering inhibitions so you can explore your sexuality and be comfortable with your partner. The third is about understanding your partner's desires and exceeding her/his expectations. And the fourth is about 'keeping it fresh' and exciting by kind of being a tease so that your partner orgasms harder due to the build-up/anticipation.

The last verse is explicit on purpose and outlines how I would give my partner an incredible orgasm. "I look her in the eye as I rub her down her thigh," because intercourse is supposed to be an intimate experience between two partners in order to share something special. I think it is very important for women to masturbate so they know how to instruct their partner in bed. If you don't know what you want, how am I suppose too? I can guess, but it's best if I "ask her what feels right, and she shows me what she likes."

Case studies show that women are more likely to achieve orgasm when relaxed and feel an emotional bond with their partner. Hence, I give her a massage with lotion in order to do just that; to relax her mind and show I am interested in her entire body and not "just her hot spots." I am also trying to make women more secure about their bodies by telling them a handful is just as sexy as anything else.


Personally, I find it sexy to watch my partner orgasm; so I make her "cum a couple of times before we even start to grind." What can I say? I like to see the "Oh" face! Is that so wrong? I don't care what you've heard, women love oral sex! And a clitoral orgasm is easier if you use your tongue. If you're with a chick that you really like, and you don't want her to leave, go down on her! Ladies, the same goes for you about a man.

Men have the ability to have multiple orgasms if they train for it! The muscle you use to stop yourself while peeing can also be used to stop yourself from ejaculating if you do Kegel exercises.  So "the feeling that I'm fight'n (i.e., preventing myself from ejaculating) gets harder as she tightens (from orgasm)." So I "disable the kegel" and allow us to have a simultaneous orgasm.

Some women find it really hard to have an orgasm. But what they need to understand (from the research I have read) is two things: A) being relaxed and comfortable with your partner is a must; and B) feeling "loved," an emotional bond, or 'like you belong,' is very important. So fellas, be a good man and "lay'er and save her from feeling incapable of feeling (an) incredible (and) indescribable connection."